The first thing to say is everyone is exactly where they need to be. If you are one of the majority of people who are still sleepwalking through their marriage, taking their spouses for granted, demanding the other meets their needs, dominating the other, playing power games, withholding sex, money or affection, etc., that’s perfect. You’re doing great.
That’s because you’re playing the game you came to play. It’s a game in which the purpose is to create opportunities to feel the pain of separation. Why? So you can come to know the opposite of it — Oneness. Remember?
Then comes the wake-up call. You begin to realize we are all in this together and we are not separate at all. That’s when your relationship changes dramatically — assuming it hasn’t already been blown apart by all those dramas you each created FOR each other in the pre-awakening period.
That said, if you are not quite sure where you are in this process of awakening and need to get a fix on your relationship now so you can decide how you want to re-negotiate it in order that you both can take it to the next level WITHOUT having to go through a huge breakdown experience, I strongly suggest you come to my FREE webinar tonight at 8:00 EST.
As you know from my webinar alert e-mail I sent out several days ago, I will be taking everyone through a special worksheet entitled Assessing Your Relationship. This will give you the perfect opportunity to examine where things stand in your relationship now. You will learn how you and your partner can make the changes that will take it to the next level. There will also be a live Q&A session immediately afterwards.
During the webinar, you will discover the unconscious agreements you both made before the relationship. By bringing these into the light, you and your partner can begin to renegotiate your relationship. And don’t worry if your partner is reluctant to participate. Open the door and shift the energy and you may well find that you both want to build a new, awakened relationship together.
Register here if you haven’t already done so. I look forward to seeing you there and if you can’t listen live, register anyway and you’ll be sent a link to the replay.